In these tough economic times… yeah. Let’s not go there. We’ve heard that phrase way too much lately.
Seriously, though, if you are looking for a job, consider being a caregiver. Here are a couple of facts to ponder:
1. 27 million Americans will require some type of long-term care by 2050 – a 100% increase from 2000. *
2. 5.7 million – 6.5 million nurses, nurse aides, home health & personal care workers will be needed to care for these individuals.*
In other words, there is no shortage of jobs within the nursing/caregiver/aide segment of the workforce. But, you say, I couldn’t possibly do that kind of work. I don’t have what it takes.
How do you know that if you haven’t tried?
Let’s explore a few of the reasons why you can’t do it that are probably running through your head right now:
I don’t have the right personality for that. – Granted, most successful professional caregivers are people-oriented, friendly, outgoing, and aren’t bothered by bodily fluids. My sister, Mellissa, is one of those. She’s a natural at this type of work. People meet her and immediately love her to pieces. And then they meet me. We have a running joke between us about me being ‘The Sister’. Basically, it means that, next to her, I’m almost as personable as a couch. I’d been telling her that for years, but she didn’t believe me until one day we were approached by a woman we’d never met. This woman immediately looked at her and said, “You must be Mellissa! It’s so nice to meet you! I’ve heard so much about you.” She then – after a long conversation with Mellissa while I stood aside – turned to me and said, “Oh, you must be the sister.” No name – just Mellissa’s sister. And thus ended the conversation with me. Why? Because I’m NOT a people person. I’m quiet, have a terrible time talking to strangers, am not a witty conversationalist, and on top of all that, am somewhat germ phobic. Try cleaning up bodily fluids with THAT little issue to deal with.
BUT – and that’s a big but – I have learned to compensate, overcome, or suppress all that. Don’t get me wrong, I’m still ‘me’, I’ve just learned to push my personal boundaries, force myself out of my cocoon, become more comfortable with people, and overcome the germ phobia. Well, at least mostly. I still have a few little quirks. My point is, if I can become a professional caregiver with a reputation that has my client’s family bragging about me to everyone they see, (yep – embarrassing) anybody can do it! It won’t be easy, and it takes dedication, time, and determination, but you can do it. Remember that being a caregiver not only helps the person you care for, but it also helps you to become a better person.
I don’t have the patience for it. - Good grief, who does? Okay, okay, yes, you need patience. Lots of it. Tons. Immeasurable amounts. But what you need even more is the ability to suppress your impatient reactions when your supply of patience runs short. You only need a moment’s worth at a time of that. Anyone can bite their tongue for five minutes until you can run outside and scream. Patience is like a muscle – it gets stronger with use. The more it’s tested, the more of it you will have.
McDonald’s pays more. – That used to be true, and in some cases, still is, and is one reason there is such a shortage of caregivers. Lack of training also contributes to low wages. HOWEVER, that is improving, and if you’re willing to take a short course and become a state-certified Nurse Aide (CNA) – which should be the minimum you do – wages are quite a bit higher. Also, some types of positions pay better than others. Private-duty home care, for example.
I don’t think I could work in a nursing home – it’s too depressing. – We’re back to the personality thing again. Different people thrive in different settings. Some people are perfectly content working in a nursing home and they thrive in the daily challenges there. Others prefer caring for one or two at a time in a home setting. Getting your feet wet, so to speak, is the only way to find out where your niche is.
I’m a guy – that seems like a woman’s job. – Traditionally, that has been true. BUT, in recent years – and more so as time goes on – the need for men to work as caregivers has risen, particularly to work with dementia patients. As the baby boomers age, so will the numbers of Alzheimer’s and dementia patients who are in physically good health but can become violent or unruly because of their disease. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in situations where having a guy around would have made life much easier while handling elderly men who were bigger and stronger than me. Men respond to other men in much different ways than they do women and sometimes just the presence of another man in the room diffuses tense situations. Trust me, guys – whatever type of facility you choose, you’ll be welcomed with gratitude!
Still not convinced? Post your questions, fears, or reservations in the comments section below, and I’ll try to answer them. Think about it; how better to feel good about what you do for a living than to help other people have the best quality of life they can have? The question shouldn’t be “Why should I?”, but rather “Why not?”.
Does this sound like a challenge? Well, it is. I double-dog dare you to give it a try!
* Department of Health and Human Services and Department of Labor statistics